Believe it or not, these small changes can amplify your feelings of love without mood lighting or lingerie.
Ways to improve your love life
1. Laugh together.
Marriage isn't just a business deal. You have the opportunity to be best friends if you're willing to invest in the relationship. Do you remember all the fun things you did together when you were dating? Stop reminiscing about those memories from the past and create some new ones.
2. Never stop saying, "I love you."
The words "I love you" never grow old—your wife or husband needs to hear them regularly, especially when you've had a fight or he or she has disappointed you in some way.
3. Take up a new hobby together.
Enroll in a cooking course, take a dancing class, learn how to ski -- whatever you do do it together. Taking up a new hobby can get you excited about life and your partner.
4. Pray together.
By praying together, you begin to have a deeper respect and admiration for each other spiritually. When the spiritual part of a relationship is sturdy and strong, that lays the foundation for a healthy physical intimacy.
5. Plan a Romantic Getaway
Sometimes simply planning and anticipating a trip will heighten feelings of romance. Set aside time to go over your calendars, determine when you can get away, and discuss what type of setting you consider best for romance.
6. Say it with Roses
A bouquet of roses can work wonders to melt a heart or forgive a hurt. But before you pick up a stem, make sure that the color roses you select send the correct message of romance.
7. Ask for what you want.
Let your partner know that you are deeply interested in spending some romantic time with them; you would be surprised by how often they are unaware of this. Whining, demanding, and manipulating are contrary to creating romance, so do your best to ask using kind and loving words.
8. Listen.
All humans crave being seen and heard. Let your partner know you're listening by saying, "Wow, I can see why you’re frustrated," or, "That must have been hard on you." Being with your partner and really listening to them can be magical for you both.
All humans crave being seen and heard. Let your partner know you're listening by saying, "Wow, I can see why you’re frustrated," or, "That must have been hard on you." Being with your partner and really listening to them can be magical for you both.
9. Tell the truth.
Truth is a great way to create connection with your partner, and feeling connected is the ultimate aphrodisiac. For example, you might say "I feel safe when I am with you" or "Sometimes I worry that we’re too busy to create close moments together, but I really want to be close with you." Just share your true feelings and speak from your experience..
10. Respect your partner.
Understand that being together does not mean being the same person or agreeing in everything. Accepting that there are differences between you two will make you better able to meet your partner’s emotional needs. Your confidence in your partner will make them more confident in themselves – and nothing is sexier than two confident people who love and trust one another.
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